Liliana Vazquez Diaz: Getting Happiness from Giving

May 20, 2025

Liliana loves The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein, as she explains. “It’s about a little boy and a tree who is happy when the boy is around. The tree starts offering the boy apples, so he will keep coming to visit. But as he grows older, he doesn’t come as often, so the tree offers the boy her branches to build a house and then her trunk to build a boat. As the years go by, the tree gives the boy everything she has until she is nothing but a stump. When the boy comes by as a tired, old man, the tree tells him that I have nothing to give you but a place to sit, and the boy says that is just fine.”

At every stage of giving, the tree is happy, and Liliana felt like crying last March when she read about the tree to the children who she serves at La Casa De Lily Learning Center, her family child care home in Albuquerque, NM. The children also got the selfless message of the book, as Liliana recalls. “One four-year-old girl was paying especially close attention, and as I looked at her eyes, I could see that she wanted to cry, too, because of what was happening to the tree. Ever since I’ve watched that little girl’s reaction, The Giving Tree has been my favorite book.”

And Liliana acts on the book’s message as a provider and a lead home-based provider mentor for Early Childhood Networks. “I hold monthly meetings where I go over topics like lesson plans and curricula with providers who are earning degrees, certificates or credentials like the CDA® ,” Liliana says. “And I also open my program to them because it is one thing to read theories about how children develop but it is another thing to put those theories into practice,” the way Liliana does at her program. She works from six in the morning to six at night to make the children and families she serves feel like family. Yet she still finds time to support other providers because she has always been committed to education.

“I’ve wanted to be a teacher since I was a little girl in Mexico,” Liliana says. And she kept this childhood dream in mind when she moved to New Mexico over 20 years ago. For 10 years, she managed an ice cream store and then found a job at a child care center. “Some of the things they did at the center didn’t align with the way I wanted to serve children,” she says, “so after two years, I bought a house, got my license and opened my own program.”

Liliana wanted her program to be “perfect,” and that led her to earn a CDA. “I learned about the credential from a friend who I worked with at the center,” Liliana says. “We did the program together and both finished last year.” By this time, Liliana had two daughters and seven years of experience running her program, but the CDA still opened her eyes to new ways of understanding young children.

“I wish I had earned my CDA sooner,” Liliana says, “especially because of what it taught me about the link between communication and behavior. I used to think some of the children I served had bad attitudes or were stubborn until I understood what the children were trying to tell me through their behavior. Since earning my CDA, I can manage better, and I can do more to move the children ahead.”

So, the CDA gave Liliana the practical knowledge she needed, and that’s what she liked about the program. “The classes directly addressed how to work with children, and the instructors made it convenient for me because they allowed me to gain my experience hours in my own program. I couldn’t have done it otherwise because my schedule is so tight. I’m happy they worked with me,” she says. And that allowed Liliana to earn a credential of which she is proud.

Completing a CDA also inspired Liliana to earn her associate degree and she’s now taking classes toward her bachelor’s degree. “I’m advancing my education, so I can offer even more to the children and families who I serve. I also want to inspire my two daughters by having a wall that’s covered with credentials and degrees. They’re both teenagers now, and I want to prepare them for the future by showing them what women can achieve. And there’s no better way than through example.”

Liliana also makes sure to spend time with her daughters, and it helps to have her child care program in her home. “I can know what my daughters are doing. I can have food ready for them, and I can take care of them while I’m taking care of the children.” Another plus is that her daughters help out, making this a real family business. “My older daughter, Andrea, is 19, so she’s old enough to take the car to pick up the children who I serve after school,” Liliana says. “And my14 year old, Isabella, really loves being around children, so she plays music, watches videos and reads to the children.”

Every bit of help matters because Liliana wants to do everything that she possibly can to serve the children and families. “I’m not just doing this for the money,” she says. “The children and parents become like family members for me. Most of the children stay in my program for years and we see each other from time to time even after they’ve gone off to school.”

Liliana doesn’t want to lose the chance to build those close connections, and that’s something she keeps in mind when she considers expanding her program. “Sometimes, I think about moving to a bigger space and serving more children. But being close to the children and families is the heart of my business.”

Liliana has also built a sense of community among the families who she serves. “They share their phone numbers and other contact information with one another so they can keep in touch,” she says. “And I encourage this because I feel I have a responsibility as a provider to bring the parents together, as well as the children. So, I’m proud of the connections the families have built with each other. I also cherish the bonds I have built with them, and I’m concerned that I might lose this strong sense of community if I make my program bigger.”

As Liliana debates whether to grow her program, she’s content to grow professionally, she says. “I’ve started mentoring home care providers remotely for Partnership for Community Action, another nonprofit, in addition to the work I already do for Early Childhood Networks. I’m also going to keep going to school so I can keep growing as a professional in early learning,” Liliana says. And all that, along with 12-hour work days, means Liliana has a lot on her plate. “Someday, I may not have the energy to deal with everything I’m doing,” as she admits. But until then, “it fills my heart to see the children grow and watch the people I mentor advance in their careers,” Liliana says. Like the tree in Shel Silverstein’s book, Liliana gets happiness out of giving.

 

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