Council Letter

October 22, 2025

Dear Colleagues,

Do you struggle to strike a work-life balance? Many people wonder how to juggle their roles at home and on the job, especially as we mark National Work and Family Month. Overall, U.S. employees are the most stressed out in the world, according to a recent Gallup Global Workplace Report. So, the hit TV series Severance has hooked millions since its release in 2022. The show centers on a company whose employees can undergo a surgical procedure that “severs” their work and home lives. This creates two distinct personalities: an “innie” who only experiences their time on the job and an “outie” who forgets what they do at work.

Many early educators may wish they could leave work behind at the end of the day, but they can’t, as Dr. Calvin Moore tells us in his new blog, Me Time Matters. Most educators spend hours in the evenings and on weekends doing paperwork and planning tasks at home. This is because only 16 states require some form of planning time for educators at work. But more states should, Dr. Moore insists, since those extra hours hurt both educators and the children they serve. Teachers who are stressed tend to interact with children less sensitively, so insufficient planning time can have an impact on young learners’ experiences in the classroom. Taking care of teachers is a key part of taking care of children.

Early childhood leaders and administrators should show concern for the challenges educators face at home since their personal issues can prevent them from doing their best at work. It’s easy to say be professional and leave your problems at home. But it doesn’t work, not even in Severance. You might not consciously recall what’s bothering you, but you still feel it, as Petey, a character in the series, points out. “You carry the hurt with you. You just don’t know what it is.”

Our lives inside and outside of work are closely linked, as Sharon Hudgins-Beck understands. So as CEO of Destiny Consulting, Sharon supports educators both personally and professionally, she tells us in this edition. “I don’t just want to pass on information during the training sessions I provide. I also ask open-ended questions that encourage people to explore life issues that prevent them from reaching their potential. In addition, I share personal stories from my own life, as an educator and parent. Sometimes, it’s just a simple tip, but afterward, an educator will often come up to me and tell me how that little bit of information made them look deep inside themselves and inspired them to be a better teacher, colleague, parent or friend. They walk away transformed because of something they’ve learned from me.”

Colleagues can also help you survive tough times, as Phyllis Roland learned many years ago after the death of her 21-year-old daughter. Now she brings that lesson to her work as a CDA® coach for the Early Childhood Innovation Center in Delaware, as you’ll see when we feature her this month. “Part of being a professional in ECE is supporting others,” Phyllis explains. That’s especially crucial when people are dealing with stress, as she did after her daughter’s death. She hasn’t forgotten how her center director at the time comforted her, and the memory still inspires her to help candidates handle the challenges in their own lives. “Every day when I go to work,” Phyllis says, “I prepare myself to be there for somebody else.”

So does JuNene K., one of the early learning professionals we spotlight in this month’s CDA Golden Moments. JuNene had to struggle to balance family life and work after her brother suffered a severe stroke. Her family called her a superwoman as she cared for her brother while raising two children and going to work. But it was hard to do, as she admitted to a group of early educators who were struggling to get through their CDA coursework. Based on her experience, she urged the educators not to neglect themselves while caring for everyone else. Educators must strike a balance between their home and work lives, instead of severing them, as JuNene knows. “Our job is to help children learn to be their best, but we also need ways to learn how to be our personal best.”

Happy National Work and Family Month,

The Council for Professional Recognition

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